“The great tragedy of speed as an answer to the complexities and responsibilities of existence is that very soon we cannot recognize anything or anyone who is not traveling at the same velocity as we are. We see only those moving in the same whirling orbit and only those moving with the same urgency. Soon we begin to suffer a form of amnesia, caused by the blurred vision of velocity itself, where those germane to our humanity are dropped from our minds one by one. We start to lose sight of any colleagues who are moving at a slower pace, and we start to lose sight of the bigger, slower cycles that underlie our work. We especially lose sight of the big, unfolding wave form passing through our lives that is indicative of our central character.”-David Whyte
What is the hurry?
Apr 28th, 2013 by deaconmike
The Lesson of a Harsh Judgement
Apr 25th, 2013 by deaconmike

Several years ago while taking a course in spiritual direction the instructor had us think about a person(s) we judged to be of lesser character than ourselves.
For me that was an easy if not a obvious choice. That person was Bill Clinton. Yes old “slick” Willy the former President of the United States.
For some reason I have always despised this guy. I judge him to be of weak character and a fraud.
When we completed the exercise I was feeling confident I had nailed this little test.
Then, to my horror, the instructor told us that all the things we found wrong with this person are the things we most fear about ourselves.
Wow- that hit me and was cause for much reflection.
Perhaps you may want to look at the person you judge most harshly and the reasons for your dislike.
Could this be your shadow self?
The Wisdom of Erma Bombeck- Judgement
Apr 24th, 2013 by deaconmike
This Sunday: The Fifth Sunday of EasterYear C
Apr 23rd, 2013 by deaconmike
This weeks readings from the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, which uses the New American Bible.
Click here for THIS SUNDAY’S readings
The Word on Fire
The Word On Fire – Fr. Robert Barron’s internet site offers many interesting insights into all things Catholic. Fr. Barron has a full library of homilies that he has prepared and we will be featuring a link here to his 15 minute reflections on this week’s readings.
This Sunday: “The second reading for this Sunday, taken from the twenty-first chapter of the Book of Revelation, completes the Biblical story. The Bible tells us that the world will be transformed into a new heaven and a new earth through the One who “makes all things new.”….”
Click here to listen to Fr. Barron’s Homily for This Sunday
Fr. Greg Friedman
Sunday Soundbites is a weekly, 90-second radio homily based on the Sunday readings, written and read by Fr. Greg Friedman, O.F.M. Sunday Soundbites is also heard on Catholic radio stations around the country.
This Sunday: “During World War II, my great uncle in Italy served as a “partisan,” a resistance fighter against the Nazis, and he gave his life for that cause. Resistance fighters like him fought throughout occupied Europe. They had to communicate secretly, often in code, as they tried to give hope to their captive brothers and sisters…..”
Click here to listen to This Sunday’s Soundbite.
The ChurchYear.Net site is a resource that provides short and highly readable information on the Church Liturgical Year.
Easter, also called Pascha, is a feast day that celebrates Christ’s resurrection from the dead. It is celebrated on Easter Sunday, the Sunday following Holy Week. Easter is also a 50-day season, often called Eastertide. In 2013, in the Western Calendar, Easter falls on March 31st (dates in other years). Prayers: Easter Prayers
Click here to read more about the Easter Season
Note: It seems that our friends of at the Catholic Register have place Fr. Scott Lewis behind a ‘paywall‘. If you subscribe to The Register you can still read his weekly reflection but for now we will need to look for an alternative.
Be Still/ Sit Quietly /Pray /”be grateful”
Apr 21st, 2013 by deaconmike
Below is a 10-minute video by Timber Hawkeye who has a very simple guide to happiness – 2 words: be grateful.
Hawkeye takes a Zen Buddhist approach to how we can change ourselves and thereby change our world. It is a Christian approach as well as Jesus consistently taught his followers to be still, to sit quietly, pray and to be grateful.
Timber suggests that gratitude turns what we have into enough. In this TEDx talk, Hawkeye observes that all of our suffering is self-inflicted, and that we have a misguided notion that happiness is something we have to “pursue.” He shares some simple prescriptions for inner peace and tranquility: slow down, sit. There is nothing you need to buy; nowhere you need to go. Just spend a few minutes each day taking inventory of everything in your life that is worth appreciating.
Video from KarmaTube
The Wisdom of Sachel Page
Apr 20th, 2013 by deaconmike

Signs from the Road: Gun Control USA Style
Apr 19th, 2013 by deaconmike
Love Language
Apr 17th, 2013 by deaconmike
Here is a video from the Jubilee Project.This project is the brain child of three young folks who make short films.
They “believe that videos are a powerful catalyst for change. Their goal is to create entertaining videos that are fun to watch and that will inspire, enable and empower others to do good as well.
The 5 minute video below is about connecting with another person. The short is descibed as follows:
Love is a funny thing. As the saying goes, we often find love when we least expect, but it might be equally true that when we do find love it’s different than we expected. This beautiful short film was created to raise awareness and money for a good cause, which it did. But it has gone so much further in showing us what love looks like, and how we can connect with each other when we have the courage to break down our own walls and become vulnerable.
This Sunday: The Fourth Sunday of EasterYear C
Apr 16th, 2013 by deaconmike
This weeks readings from the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, which uses the New American Bible.
Click here for THIS SUNDAY’S readings
The Word on Fire
The Word On Fire – Fr. Robert Barron’s internet site offers many interesting insights into all things Catholic. Fr. Barron has a full library of homilies that he has prepared and we will be featuring a link here to his 15 minute reflections on this week’s readings.
This Sunday: “The first reading for this Sunday, taken from the thirteenth chapter of the Acts of the Apostles, recounts the expulsion of Paul and Barnabas from Antioch. Paul’s radical message of the Lordship of Jesus subverts all other power and authority. It is a public proclamation that is a challenge to all. ……”
Click here to listen to Fr. Barron’s Homily for This Sunday
Fr. Greg Friedman
Sunday Soundbites is a weekly, 90-second radio homily based on the Sunday readings, written and read by Fr. Greg Friedman, O.F.M. Sunday Soundbites is also heard on Catholic radio stations around the country.
This Sunday: “As a youngster in the 1950s, serving Mass in my home parish, I was always excited when a Franciscan priest who grew up in our neighborhood came home for a visit. He’d become a foreign missionary, and I loved to hear his stories of different lands and peoples. He inspired me to consider the priesthood, and a vocation to the Franciscans. ….”
Click here to listen to This Sunday’s Soundbite.
The ChurchYear.Net site is a resource that provides short and highly readable information on the Church Liturgical Year.
Easter, also called Pascha, is a feast day that celebrates Christ’s resurrection from the dead. It is celebrated on Easter Sunday, the Sunday following Holy Week. Easter is also a 50-day season, often called Eastertide. In 2013, in the Western Calendar, Easter falls on March 31st (dates in other years). Prayers: Easter Prayers
Click here to read more about the Easter Season
Note: It seems that our friends of at the Catholic Register have place Fr. Scott Lewis behind a ‘paywall‘. If you subscribe to The Register you can still read his weekly reflection but for now we will need to look for an alternative.
What is success in the world of minsitry?
Apr 14th, 2013 by deaconmike
My friend Bill Radigan is a fellow deacon who has chosen to walk with those touch by crime as part of the Friends of Dismas ministry. Below is a homily he recently preached that focuses on a number of interactions he has had with folks on the margins of our society. It speaks to the question of how we measure success in this type of ministry.
Please take a moment to read his reflections based on his years of experience and apparent failures.
“…unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” Jn 12, 24
A while back I had a rough week. I am sure you all know the kind. When all of a sudden you start to question the very purpose of everything you do. First came the disappointing news from the halfway house. I had developed a strong relationship with a young man in his early twenties on parole, someone who had visited here and met with our Holy Spirit group. He had a terrific attitude. He had learned his lesson and was bent and determined to turn over a new leaf, to go back to school, to find a legitimate job, and to leave behind everything, all the friends and values, that had lead him to a life of crime. He was so pleased when he got his first job that he insisted on treating me to dinner at a popular Queen street diner. Well, the halfway house gave me the news that he just been arrested for robbing two banks. I asked the case worker if there might be some mistake. He said that they had seen the bank photo and while the image was a bit grainy it did look a lot like him. I felt as though I had been punched in the stomach.
Then, that same week, the headlines of the Toronto Star for days featured the trial of another fellow I was visiting at the Don Jail. The story was deeply disturbing. He had done some horrible things. I was sorry I had even read it. But I had. So now, how am I supposed to visit with this man again, how can I reach out to this person with any real sense of compassion and love?
And then, about the same time I was asked if I would like to participate in a study being done by a PhD student of Criminology at Carlton University. He would interview myself and an ex-offender I was working with, both now and then again after one year to follow up on progress. And I guess that was when it really hit home for me. I realized that there were very few I could think of that I had developed a strong relationship with in the last year who were still around to do the follow-up interview.
There was that nice fellow, quiet but articulate, who I frequently met with over coffee or pizza. He had been a regular at our Dismas Fellowship dinners until he was finally able to leave the halfway house and live in his own apartment. I saw him twice again, soon after that. And then he disappeared. The last reported sighting of him from one of his caseworkers was on a downtown street, disheveled, and down from 230 pounds when I knew him, to about 110 – symptoms common to crack addiction.
And then there’s the homeless man, lovable on the inside but with a hard and crusty exterior. Always down on the world, he lives on the streets and is constantly moving from town to town or shelter to shelter. He never lasts very long in one place before he either gets fed up of them or they get fed up with him. He’ll still call me occasionally though you never know where from.
And the story goes on. You get the idea. So I got to the point where it all began to feel so senseless. All kinds of questions started to arise: What was the point of all this? What difference was I really making anyway? How many people that I reach out to really want to be helped? How am I supposed to bring hope to those whose problems are often so chronic, their wounds so deep, their spirit so broken, that they seem beyond healing ?
So for a while I was in a sorry state, discouraged and disheartened.
HUMILITY
Apr 12th, 2013 by deaconmike
A Poem by Rajendra Tela,Nirantar
God is with those
who stay cool
in a hot place,
sweet in a sour place,
and
little in a big place
Humility is their way
to live life
come what may
they never give way
they keep going
on the path
they have chosen
This Sunday: The Third Sunday of EasterYear C
Apr 9th, 2013 by deaconmike
This weeks readings from the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, which uses the New American Bible.
Click here for THIS SUNDAY’S readings
The Word on Fire
The Word On Fire – Fr. Robert Barron’s internet site offers many interesting insights into all things Catholic. Fr. Barron has a full library of homilies that he has prepared and we will be featuring a link here to his 15 minute reflections on this week’s readings.
This Sunday: “Our Gospel for today, taken from the wonderful 21st chapter of St. John’s Gospel, is filled with mystical and symbolic allusions. The disciples in the boat are evocative of the church; Jesus on the shore calls to mind the eschatological fulfillment toward which the church is journeying; Peter calls to mind both sinful Adam and the promise of redemption. In all of it, we see a picture of discipleship……”
Click here to listen to Fr. Barron’s Homily for This Sunday
Fr. Greg Friedman
Sunday Soundbites is a weekly, 90-second radio homily based on the Sunday readings, written and read by Fr. Greg Friedman, O.F.M. Sunday Soundbites is also heard on Catholic radio stations around the country.
This Sunday: “Sharing a meal does more than just nourish our bodies. It helps to forge relationships and create intimacy. And so we take care to make the meals we share with families and friends special, with good food, atmosphere and conversation….”
Click here to listen to This Sunday’s Soundbite.
The ChurchYear.Net site is a resource that provides short and highly readable information on the Church Liturgical Year.
Easter, also called Pascha, is a feast day that celebrates Christ’s resurrection from the dead. It is celebrated on Easter Sunday, the Sunday following Holy Week. Easter is also a 50-day season, often called Eastertide. In 2013, in the Western Calendar, Easter falls on March 31st (dates in other years). Prayers: Easter Prayers
Click here to read more about the Easter Season
Note: It seems that our friends of at the Catholic Register have place Fr. Scott Lewis behind a ‘paywall‘. If you subscribe to The Register you can still read his weekly reflection but for now we will need to look for an alternative.
Signs from the Road: Lost Dog
Apr 8th, 2013 by deaconmike
Jeremy “the theologian” explains the Easter Story
Apr 6th, 2013 by deaconmike
Below is a story I used in my Easter Homily. It is the mystery of Easter as explained by a 12 year old theologian named Jeremy.
Please click here for a Printer Friendly copy of the story.
Jeremy was born with a twisted body, a slow mind and a chronic, terminal illness that had been slowly killing him all his young life. Still, his parents had tried to give him as normal a life as possible and had sent him to St. Theresa’s elementary school. At the age of 12, Jeremy was only in second grade, seemingly unable to learn.
His teacher, Doris Miller, often became exasperated with him. He would squirm in his seat, drool and make grunting noises. At other times, he spoke clearly and distinctly, as if a spot of light had penetrated the darkness of his brain. Most of the time, however, Jeremy irritated his teacher.
One day, she called his parents and asked them to come to St. Teresa’s for a consultation. As the Foresters sat quietly in the empty classroom, Doris said to them, “Jeremy really belongs in a special school. It isn’t fair to him to be with younger children who don’t have learning problems. Why, there is a five-year gap between his age and that of the other students!” Mrs. Forrester cried softly into a tissue while her husband spoke. “Miss Miller,” he said, “there is no school of that kind nearby. It would be a terrible shock for Jeremy if we had to take him out of this school. We know he really likes it here.”
Doris sat for a long time after they left, staring at the snow outside the window. Its coldness seemed to seep into her soul. She wanted to sympathize with the Foresters. After all, their only child had a terminal illness. But it wasn’t fair to keep him in her class. She had 18 other youngsters to teach and Jeremy was a distraction. Furthermore, he would never learn to read or write. Why spend any more time trying? As she pondered the situation, guilt washed over her. “Oh God,” she said aloud, “here I am complaining when my problems are nothing compared with that poor family! Please help me to be more patient with Jeremy.” From that day on, she tried hard to ignore Jeremy ‘s noises and his blank stares.
Then one day he limped to her desk, dragging his bad leg behind him. “I love you, Miss Miller,” he exclaimed, loudly enough for the whole class to hear. The other children snickered, and Doris’s face turned red. She stammered, “wh-why, that’s very nice, Jeremy. Now please take your seat.”
Spring came, and the children talked excitedly about the coming of Easter. Doris told them the story of Jesus, and then to emphasize the idea of new life springing forth, she gave each of the children a large plastic egg. “Now,” she said to them “I want you to take this home and bring it back tomorrow with something inside that shows new life. Do you understand?”
“Yes, Miss Miller!” The children responded enthusiastically – all except for Jeremy. He just listened intently; his eyes never left her face. He did not even make his usual noises. Had he understood what she had said about Jesus’ death and resurrection? Did he understand the assignment? Perhaps she should call his parents and explain the project to them.
That evening, Doris’ kitchen sink stopped up. She called the landlord and waited an hour for him to come by and unclog it. After that, she still had to shop for groceries, iron a blouse and prepare a vocabulary test for the next day. She completely forgot about phoning Jeremy ‘s parents.
The next morning, 19 children came to school, laughing and talking as they placed their eggs in the large wicker basket on Miss Miller’s desk. After they completed their math lesson, it was time to open the eggs. In the first egg, Doris found a flower. “Oh yes, a flower is certainly a sign of new life,” she said. “When plants peek through the ground we know that spring is here. “A small girl in the first row waved her arms. “That’s my egg, Miss Miller,” she called out. The next egg contained a plastic butterfly, which looked very real. Doris held it up. “We all know that a caterpillar changes and turns into a beautiful butterfly. Yes, that is new life, too” little Judy smiled proudly and said, “Miss Miller, that one is mine.”
Next Doris found a rock with moss on it. She explained that the moss, too, showed life. Billy spoke up from the back of the classroom. “My daddy helped me!” He beamed. Then Doris opened the fourth egg. She gasped. The egg was empty! Surely it must be Jeremy ‘s, she thought, and, of course, he did not understand her instructions. If only she had not forgotten to phone his parents. Because she did not want to embarrass him, she quietly set the egg aside and reached for another.
Suddenly Jeremy spoke up. “Miss Miller, aren’t you going to talk about my egg?”
Letters to the Pope from Prison
Apr 5th, 2013 by deaconmike
For more letters take a jog over to Fr. Philip Chircop site by clicking here. Stay a while why your there as he has a way with words and images that make for a refreshing stop on the road.












